Rasanya most parents dah biasa sgt dengar pasal:
How to Handle Your Child's Temper Tantrum
kan? I also read alot bout benda2 ni..yer la..Mirza dah 3 tahun, semakin banyak akal lah dia. Most of the advice is to ignore (selagi tidak membahayakan). Tapi another thing yg rasanya membawa kepada Tantrum tu is dia tau yg dia akan dapat adik/baby baru..dan nampak sgt dia nak lebih2 attention from Mama dia yg tgh sarat ni huhu So mari kita start reading pasal:
How to Help Your Child Accept a New Baby
Dalam banyak2 advice tu, salah satu perenggan yg tak terfikir plak oleh aku is...
WARNING!
Remind your tactless or forgetful relatives and friends to pay some attention to the older child FIRST when they come to visit - and this does NOT mean asking "What do you think about your new brother?" or "How do you like being the big sister?" Ignoring the baby completely for the first fifteen minutes won't hurt the baby a bit but can do wonders for the older child's self-confidence. Avoid giving the impression that "all you can talk about" is the new baby.
Jadi...silalah buat2 layan Mirza dulu when you guys will be visiting new baby nanti yer hahaha kalau ada hadiah utk baby tu, kena ada hadiah utk Mirza jugak ke? cekelat ke ape ke murah2 dah la kan...dahhhh satu hal plak kan? camtu ke? hish macam macam kan...layaannnnnn ;)
And nasihat dari member yg dah berpengalaman & sedang pregnant anak ke-3 is: pay attention to ur older child, baby takpa, just make sure susu cukup-kenyang dan tidor cukup. tu ja :p
Mirza holding baby sapa ntah during Enggagement Manja at our house in Feb 2010.
4 comments:
aku faham dan aku dah mengalami kepeningan melayan karenah budak camni. kalau tak sabo rasa nak terjun laut belakang umah.
my putri sgtla manja dan pampered, so dia tak bole tgk org lain layan adik dia. kesian putra kene lanyak, tarik rambut dan aksi tolak menolak dah biasa dah.
penah sekali aku tanye nak putri suka pukul adik?
dia jawab, "sbb putra hensem!" bole?
hahaha..tu la..kagum aku org ada anak lebih 2 org nih huhu eh fixa, rasanya aku tak penah tgk la gambar putra putri ko tu..post la pics kat blog tuuuu hihi
tetiba aku rasa berdebar-debar baca entry hang ni.
tatau pasaipa.
hah sheyna..ada apa apa ka? hehehe irfan pun nak dapat adik kot. panics kan bila bab pasai anak2 nih ish ish ish...
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